Fight for what you want.

I used to be scared of saying no, of saying I'm not comfortable. I didn't know how to stand up for myself. I was pushed to the wall so many times and never fought back. That was me growing up. Not until I had enough and I told my oppressors to go to hell did I realise I had a louder voice for saying no, for saying how I wanted to be treated. It is good to be calm, but then again,too much of everything is bad. It takes a few more push to realise you've had a enough. Why wait on that when going known you can't stand it anymore.
If you don't like it, say it.
If you don't want it, say it.
If you don't feel it, say it.
If you don't agree with it, say it.
If you are not ready, say it.
If you are sad, say it.
If you are not comfortable, say it.

My dear, don't be intimidated by anybody. The power you have is much greater than the suffering you are enduring. To those who know me well, I am very calm and gentle, that's my nature. That's who I am. That doesn't mean someone smaller or bigger would come and pull trash with me.  I wouldn't even give an opening for such in the first place,  so should you.
You are the dictator of how you want your life to be.
Nothing should scare you. I dare you to man up and stop killing yourself slowly in the name of love, family, friendship and the likes.
You are worth more than someone's free time. Also,  don't be afraid to walk away and stay on your own from time to time. Refresh your mind. Stay healthy. Look beautiful and lastly, LOVE YOURSELF.

Stay motivated.
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