Actions speaks louder than words

I am a strong hater of judgemental people. Why do most people enjoy finding faults in other people's way of life and forget they aren't perfect. I have been a victim of judgemental people a lot of times. It doesn't get better, you don't get used to it no matter how you convince yourself; it only gets worse.
Mistakes are a normal part of living, we outgrow those mistakes. Being reminded by those mistakes by people who don't realize how sickening it is use to be tormenting. We should try to avoid judging people of their past mistakes.
Recently, I did something I wasn't ashamed of, something private I didn't want anyone to know about because in my country, everybody automatically has a say in your life. One thing lead to another which lead to a few people finding it out. Now when they did,  they didn't say anything but there was a sudden reaction afterwards, I didn't know they already found out till I put two and two together.
I was very sad that what people knew what I was keeping away from the public and as expected, the rumors would spread in a matter of time.  What am I going to do?
NOTHING!!!
I decided not to do anything because I don't owe anyone an explanation for my actions. Whatever they saw or heard is my business and they had no right to judge me and I have no intentions to be sad about that anymore. A lot of us have been in situations like this numerous times and didn't know the way to go about it.  Now you do.
When there's a gossip about you,  best you don't react to it.  Your silence becomes to the best answer for fools.  Whether it is a good thing or a bad thing. It's totally your life . Please keep your head in the game and avoid judging people.

Stay motivated.
#Bibaspeaks

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